Interest in psychics, mediums and all things paranormal is at an
all-time high, especially at this time of year. Working as a
professional psychic for the last decade, I'd like to offer some helpful
tips to those considering a session with a psychic.
1. Don't have
a specific agenda. It's okay to want to know certain things as a result
of your psychic session; your psychic will probably allow you to ask
questions as well. But if your sole intention for booking a session is
to get "the" defining answer to a specific question, you'll likely end
up disappointed. The reason being is that if the psychic is authentic,
the information they communicate doesn't come from them, it comes through
them. This means that the psychic has little control over what they are
being spiritually guided to convey. You'll receive what you need, not
what you want - which may be two very different things.
2. Let the
psychic guide the session. You're paying a professional psychic for
their time; allow them to do their job and lead the discussion where it
needs to go. A good psychic should do most of the talking and asking you
to validate or confirm the impressions they receive. You will likely
frustrate an authentic psychic with your emotional overload by going off
on tangents or venting your life story. And you'll be giving a
fraudulent psychic way too much information that can be manipulated to
their advantage. When in doubt, politely ask the psychic if you may
elaborate to underscore a point.
3. Listen for credible details.
An authentic psychic will be able to spontaneously provide you with
(sometimes odd or unusual) tidbits of information to affirm that they
are indeed connecting with you properly. Don't expect to hear the exact
"code" word you had with your deceased wife or the secret signal you had
with your boyfriend. In fact, just the opposite may be true. Once
during a session, I felt I was connecting with a gentleman's brother who
had passed on when they were younger. I kept "seeing" activities
centered on a tree house, climbing trees or jumping out of trees. The
man confirmed that his brother used to always torment him by jumping out
of trees to scare him when they were kids - a totally random thing.
Also, be open to what is being communicated. Often people will develop
"psychic amnesia," by which they become oblivious to the obvious for not
having total recall in the moment. Grant that you might require process
time beyond your session for recollections to surface in your memory
bank.
4.
Are you booked with a psychic or a medium? All mediums are psychic but
not every psychic is a medium. A medium is someone who can willfully
connect with one or more of your loved ones who have passed on; a
psychic is someone who specializes in communicating intuitive
information about your life, relationships and your future. Find out in
advance if the practitioner with whom you'd like to book a session is a
psychic, a medium, or both. It will aid you in tempering your
expectations. As before, go in open-minded. While it's okay to have
expectations of wanting to hear from a loved one, don't be surprised if
your deceased alcoholic uncle who abused you when you were a kid comes
through instead. This tends to be the way things work spiritually, and
the communication from the uncle could very well be exactly what you're
intended to receive as it pertains to healing your family and life in
general.
5. Terminate any session that doesn't feel right. No
reputable psychic will ever predict your death, foretell a tragedy, give
you winning lottery numbers or inform you that you have a curse put
upon you and your family and that to remove it, you need to return
repeatedly. A reputable psychic will also not keep increasing their fee
with each visit, or expect that you buy ancillary merchandise from them
on a regular basis. Run, don't walk, from anyone who conducts business
with you in a manner that does not feel authentic. On rare occasions, I
may be challenged in connecting with a client. In the past ten years,
this has happened about four or five times. In those situations, I will
stop and ask the client how they'd like to handle it, an option of which
may be to end the session at no charge to the client. An inauthentic
psychic will bluff their way through for being focused on making a buck.
These
principles are a good place to begin when considering a psychic
reading. Don't hesitate to ask for references or to research a psychic
online. Word of mouth is how I've always done business and I have
received many clients as referrals from others who were satisfied
customers. A good psychic's work will speak for itself.
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